I’m back on Hinge!

I’m clear about:

• Things being long distance until the end of the year, even though I visit the city 2x/month.
• Me being on there for a “life partner” (I thought hard about this, and yes, that’s where I am at)
• Welcoming to queer friendships, but that we’ll both still have to put a lot of effort in to even be just friends.

Let’s see how this one goes.

I also dropped a text to this other match from a week ago. Apologised and told them where my head’s at. And that we could part ways if they don’t think my new profile is a good fit for them.

I will try not to “ghost” people from now on. It’s going to suck because I’m going to get ghosted a lot anyway still. But that’s OK. Their ghosting is not a judgment on me.

I will continue to talk to Nomi, but that doesn’t mean I can’t find more a) friends b) someone who’s willing to commit and communicate.